My November Goals For The Happy.Healthy.Whole Project

Welcome back for Month 2 of my Happy.Healthy.Whole Project (HHWP)! If you’re just joining me and are wondering what this project is all about, or if you’ve been following but would like to catch up on a few days, check out my HHWP page!

October was a big month for me! I launched my HHWP, I participated in Blogtober (publishing a post every single day), AND I turned 35 years old! 

If you haven’t yet, check out how I did with my October HHWP goals, and see all that I learned.

Now that Blogtober has ended, I will no longer be posting every day, but will be returning to my regular bi-weekly blogging schedule of posting every Wednesday and Sunday (with maybe one extra post mixed in here and there).

I’ll continue to update you about my HHWP, but will also be mixing in more content about healthy habits, mindset, and overall wellness and happiness. 

But today’s post is all about my November Goals for my HHWP! Shall we get to them?

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November Healthy.Happy.Whole Goals

As you may recall, at the beginning of my project, I chose 5 areas of my life that I wanted to focus on improving during the course of my project.

Those 5 areas were:

  1. Improve physical health.
  2. Find my calling.
  3. Build keystone habits.
  4. Achieve life balance.
  5. Strengthen relationships.

Each month of my HHWP, the intention is to set new goals in these 5 areas of my life, in order to become progressively happier, healthier, and fulfilled by the life that I am living!

So let’s take a look at my new goals in each of these 5 areas of life, one at a time.

Improve Physical Health

As I am still physically unable to return to work, according to my orthopedic surgeon (following a shoulder surgery and wrist injury as a result of an accident at work), one of my main goals for this project is my continued rehabilitation. 

I feel like my shoulder is making some significant progress! However, my wrist has been acting up recently. I just received a steroid injection in it on October 29th, we will see in a couple of weeks if that will solve the problem.

If all goes well, my doctor is hopeful that I will be cleared for full release to work at my next appointment, which is my 6 month post-operative check-up, just before Christmas on December 22nd. Keep your fingers crossed for me!

Until then, my November goals to improve physical health are to:

  • Continue going to physical therapy twice a week.
  • Perform my prescribed shoulder and wrist exercises at home four times per week.
  • Perform cardiovascular exercise at least three times per week, increasing the length of time of each session as tolerated.

I would also like to get back to paddling my outrigger canoe, which my doctor had just given me permission to do at the end of September, before my wrist issue flared up. But I won’t make that an official goal since it is entirely dependent on how my wrist reacts to the injection.

Answer My Calling

This objective I had originally called “find my calling” but after a super productive October, I believe I have found my calling!

So in honor of that, for the remainder of my HHWP, I will rename this objective, “answer my calling”, now that I actually know what it is.

As a recap, for my calling, I have decided to leave the tourism industry which has become highly unpredictable here in Hawaii with all the complications from Covid-19.

I have decided instead to return to my roots with my new career path. I have a Master’s degree in Exercise and Wellness as well as personal training certifications.

However, in my younger years I was more interested in athletics. I did strength and conditioning coaching for a number of years at the collegiate level, helped coach a high school girls sprint and hurdle squad, did private sports performance coaching, and led boot camp-style group training classes. 

Then, I taught for three and half years at an online vocational school for people that wanted to become personal trainers. 

I taught all kinds of classes including anatomy, behavior change, motivational interviewing, nutrition, exercise science, programing, and even personal training certification test preparation classes.

Then I moved out to Hawaii and became the director of operations for an adventure company. 

But now that I am a bit older, I have come back to my love of health and wellness. I have decided that I can help more people by focusing on the health side of things rather than the performance side as I did when I was younger.

I believe that my calling is to help people build the mindset and healthy habits necessary to prevent chronic disease so that they can live their lives to the fullest. This is how I can use my skills to help others, in a way that I am passionate about. 

Because of my education and background in Exercise & Wellness, I will just need to study for, and then take a health coaching certification exam.

As mentioned in my previous post, I will also continue to build my blog, and diversify my income streams.

So my November goals in the “answer my calling” category are to:

  • Study at least one hour a day for my health coach certification.
  • Publish a blog post at least twice a week on the topics of healthy habits, mindset, or living life to the fullest.
  • Cultivate alternate income streams by:
    • Signing up for affiliate programs related to exercise and wellness.
    • Legally protecting my blog.
    • Developing a digital product to have ready to launch by New Year’s resolution season.

Build Keystone Habits

The next area of life I chose to focus on for my HHWP was keystone habits. If you’re not familiar with the 10 keystone habits, you may want to take a moment to read about them.

In this category, I especially want to continue to develop time management techniques and systems so that I can make sure that I have time for everything that is a priority.

My November goals for the keystone habit category are to:

  • Plan out my blog content all the way through the end of 2020 so that I can be more consistent in my posting, and write ahead.
  • Schedule Twitter posts one week in advance. Aim for at least 3 posts per day.
  • Make a pin tracking sheet so I can see what is and isn’t working well on Pinterest.
  • Make and schedule at least 5 fresh pins/day – also add these into old posts.

Achieve Life Balance

Achieving life balance is important to me. Before I injured myself, it was all work. Tons of overtime, working 6 days a week, and when I wasn’t at work, I was expected to be responding to work texts, calls. and emails constantly. 

Now, I’ve gone completely the other way after my injury and have no (paid) work, although I’ve been filling that time with blogging and rehabilitation.

My November goals for the “achieve life balance” category are to:

  • Take advantage of time blocking and build a new routine so that I am able to make sure I have time to develop my blog, study for my exam, rehab my shoulder/wrist, and take care of my relationships.
  • Make boundaries for when work time is over. Scheduling should help with this.
  • Get outside at least once a week for a hike, paddle, or little time at the beach – because the outdoors is good for clearing my head and important for my happiness.

Strengthen Relationships

Finally, the last category for my HHWP, was to strengthen relationships. In October, I set the goal to reach out to my dad/step-mom, mom, brother, sister, and best friend at least once a week.

I was a little inconsistent with this last month, so I’d like to make a slight change for November and divide them into two groups, contacting each group every other week in hopes that this will be a little more manageable and allow me to be more consistent in this goal..

The contact schedule goes like this:

  • Weeks 1 & 3 – dad/step-mom and brother.
  • Weeks 2 & 4 – mom, sister, and best friend.

The other thing I’d like to do in this category for November, is to actually go to visit my family in Washington state.

I want to point out that I don’t do this lightly. I was supposed to go home in April when my only sister gave birth to her first baby. And I was supposed to go to my cousin’s nursing school graduation and wedding in June, but I cancelled both of those trips.

Until a few weeks ago (October 15th), Hawaii was still completely closed for tourism and all returning residents had to do a mandatory 14 day quarantine, no matter what – even if they tested negative for covid-19.

Now, they are allowing visitors to the islands. And prior to leaving the mainland for Hawaii, I will need to get a Covid-19 test three days prior to flying.

If I test negative, I can fly to Hawaii and quarantine in my home (away from my partner) for 3 days, until I am eligible to take a second covid-19 test in Hawaii. 

If that second test is also negative, then I will be allowed to come out of quarantine, if not, I will be required to finish out the full 14 day quarantine.

To be honest, I feel completely anxious about making the trip. But it seems that now may be my last chance to see my family for who knows how long. With cases increasing, and expected to continue to do so throughout the winter… this could be my last chance for a long time.

So as a recap, my November goals in the strengthen “relationships” category are to:

  • Contact my family/BFF at least every other week according to the schedule above.
  • Visit my family in Washington including meeting my new niece.


So there we have it, my November Happy.Healthy.Whole Project goals! My project got off to a fantastic start last month in October, and I hope this month will go just as well.

Last month my biggest challenges were the blogtober blogging challenge, and figuring out what my calling was. This month I expect my biggest challenges will come from the category of “answer my calling.” Particularly with studying for the health coaching exam, and trying to make the change to start monetizing my blog through affiliate marketing.

But I am up for the challenge, and I’d love to hear from you as well!

  • What are your goals for November?
  • How will you challenge yourself to grow this month?
  • What do you anticipate your biggest challenges to be this month?

Let me know in the comments below!

Stay tuned for more Happy.Healthy.Whole Project updates throughout the month!

A hui hou (until then),


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Author: clarissa.cabbage

Clarissa is a teacher, a coach, and an avid adventurer! Armed with a master's degree in Exercise and Wellness, she is on a mission to teach people how to build healthier habits that support the adventurous lifestyle of their dreams. There is nothing Clarissa is more passionate about than helping people get active and live their lives to the fullest!

32 Replies to “My November Goals For The Happy.Healthy.Whole Project

  1. Wow, it looks like you’ve achieved so much in so little time. Congrats! In this year alone, I feel like we’ve all had some time to reflect and think about what we want to do with our lives.
    As for last month, I did my best to stay afloat between working full-time, going to school part-time, and working on my blog!
    But one major achievement I had in Oct. was that I finally launched my Redbubble shop, which is based on the themes of my blog, such as mental health and self-care reminders. It took me months to create the designs, but I’m very proud of how far come I’ve come.
    As for Nov. goals, I think my main goal is finding sustainability and balance!

    1. Finding balance is a fantastic goal Harumi! It sounds like you e got a lot going on! I did see your shop when I was over on your site a little earlier today – I really love your stuff, and it looks like you’ve got it up and running just in time for Christmas shopping – well done!

      I agree that now is definitely a time when people are doing a lot of self reflection. It seems like the natural thing to do when things go a little sideways, doesn’t it?

      Thanks so much for stopping by and checking out my project. I wish you all the best of luck with your shop, and acheiving balance in November!

  2. Good luck with all of your goals for the month. I am big on living healthy. It is great that you’re working towards getting a certification to be a health coach!! I am just hoping that I can maintain – just simple things :).

    Nancy ✨ mdrnminimalists.com

    1. Thank you so much Jodie, I am so glad to hear you found it inspiring! Hopefully, if all goes as planned this month, I’ll have made quite a lot of progress towards making my calling a reality!

  3. Wow, these are such big goals! Good luck with everything, it’s great you’re trying to work on all aspects of life. I hope the trip to Hawaii goes smoothly x


    1. Thanks so much Sophie! Yes they are some pretty lofty goals aren’t they? The good news is that without work, I am able to pursue them full time, so that hopefully by new years when I’m put back on the job market I’ll have some source of income! Thank you so much for reading!

  4. I love how you are building and expanding off what you have achieved! I think writing about the things you are learning in your studies is a great way to make the lessons stick too. 🙂

    Best of luck with everything and may the words flow!

    1. Aww thanks so much Jaya! Building off the previous months goals was one big change in format that I made from Gretchen Rubin’s original Happiness Project. So far I am thinking that it was a good modification for me – I’m glad you appreciate that too!

      And I absolutely agree that writing about what I’m learning will help it to stick more. That’s a great point. Thanks for reading and all your well-wishes, Jaya!

  5. Congratulations on successful October. I really enjoyed reading your posts.

    I admire you for following your passion. That takes a lot of courage.

    My main goal for November is to hold it together at work which is very challenging right now. I’m also starting the second course in the Plain Language certificate program I started earlier this year. For my blog, I want to get the rest of my Blogmas content drafted.

    1. Thank you Michelle! It sounds like you e got some excellent goals as well! I just had to stop and Google what the plain language certificate was. It looks interesting but I hadn’t heard of it before!

      Are you doing the daily posting version of blogmas? I’ll be sure to keep my eye out for it!

  6. Thanks Pip! That is one thing that I have learned about myself over the years. If I am not working towards something – I feel that I lack purpose and direction and get very restless and unhappy. I think growth is a huge part of happiness that people can sometimes overlook!

    1. That’s awesome to hear Rosie! I feel like at this time of the year, people just say I might as well wait til the new year, but, if we start now, we can get a 2 month jump on our goals and the life of our dreams!

  7. What an incredible post. I love how you have broken down your goals. I really do think it makes goals much more achievable if they are not so overwhelming.

    I am looking forward to watching you achieve them all x

    1. Awwww thanks for the vote of confidence Claire! I absolutely agree that goals are much less intimidating and therefore easier to achieve when we break them down. Thank you for reading!

    1. Those are great goals Liz! I think that life balance is definitely something that can easily get away from us. We really have to be mindful about setting boundaries, both for ourselves and others, if we want to achieve it. I have found that can sometimes be very difficult, but I know it will be worth it in the end. Thanks so much for sharing your goals with me, and best of luck with them!

  8. Congradulations on turning 35 and having the courage to pursue all these amazing goals! Hope you can check off as much as possible 😊

    1. Thank you! I’m feeling pretty good about 35 so far! It feels good to finally have a little more direction in my life. It feels kind of like the light at the end of the tunnel that has been 2020. 🤷‍♀️🤯 Thanks for stopping by and having a read!

    1. I absolutely agree Laila! Being required to work in an office 8+ hours a day definitely takes its toll. Up until recently I had a very physical job so I never worried much about it personally. But, I’m really feeling it now, and realizing that it takes a lot of planning to get that extra movement in your day in other ways. I know you can reach your goals though – keep at it!

  9. I love your goals! That sounds like such an amazing adventure to get back to the health and wellness field. I REALLY need to get my goals in order and set up some very specific plans as you did. Thanks for the encouragement!

  10. Good luck with your goals!!! I fancy people who keep the promises they give to themselves, as I’m pretty bad with it myself… But getting better, and you are one of my inspirations 🙂

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